Community Guidelines

1. The short version

• Treat other people as people. Disagree without attacking.
• Ask before sending anything sexual to someone who has not asked for it.
• Take no for an answer the first time.
• Do not carry a fight from one server into another, or into someone’s inbox.
• Do not do here what you would not do if everyone could see your name on it.

2. In servers

• Follow the server’s own rules as well as these. Server owners may be stricter than us; they can never be more permissive.
• Post in the channel the topic belongs in. Adult content goes only in channels marked for it.
• Do not spam, flood, mass-mention, or use bots to drown out a conversation.
• Do not organise or join a pile-on against a member, a server, or a person off the platform.
• Do not use a server to recruit for scams, off-platform payment arrangements, or anything the AUP prohibits.

3. In group messages

• Do not add someone to a group without checking they want to be in it, and remove anyone who asks to leave.
• What is shared in a group stays in it. Do not screenshot another member’s messages or media and republish them.
• One person objecting to sexual content in a mixed group is enough. Move it somewhere it is wanted.

4. In direct messages

• Do not send sexual images, video or explicit propositions to anyone who has not indicated they want them. Unsolicited sexual media is the most common reason accounts are actioned here.
• If someone stops replying, blocks you, or asks you to stop, that is the end of it. Making another account to keep contacting them is ban evasion and is treated as harassment.
• Never threaten to publish someone’s private messages, images or personal details. Sextortion ends the account immediately and is reported to law enforcement.
• Do not forward or repost private media you were sent. Being sent something is not permission to publish it.

5. Consent and boundaries in adult spaces

Adult content is welcome here between adults who want it. Consent is what makes that work, and consent is specific: agreeing to one thing is not agreeing to the next thing, and agreeing once is not agreeing always.

Consent can be withdrawn at any time, including after something was shared. If someone asks you to take down content of them, take it down. If it stays up, they can require us to remove it through the Content Removal procedure, with or without an account.

Everyone in sexual content you publish must have been at least 18, must have agreed to it being published, and must be recorded as such — see the Age & Consent Records statement. Content of someone who was never asked is prohibited outright, not merely discouraged.

Do not pressure anyone for images, do not offer money or platform items for sexual services, and do not treat asking someone’s age as a formality. If you genuinely doubt that someone is an adult, stop and report the account.

6. What happens when a rule is broken

We match the response to the harm done. Ordinarily it escalates in this order, and an earlier step on your record makes the next one heavier:

• Warning — a notice naming the rule and the content. It stays on your record.
• Content removal — the message, upload or channel comes down; the account continues.
• Feature restriction — losing the ability to post, upload, message or create servers for a set period.
• Suspension — the account is closed to you for a set period. Purchases are not refunded for a suspension you caused.
• Permanent ban — the account and the servers it owns are terminated, and coming back on a new account is ban evasion.

7. What skips the ladder

Some things are actioned at the top step on the first occurrence, with no warning, and are reported to the authorities where the law requires it:

• Anything sexual involving a minor, or anyone who appears to be one.
• Sharing intimate content of a person without their consent, or threatening to.
• Bestiality, and coprophilia (“scat”) content.
• Credible threats of violence, and content promoting terrorism or mass violence.
• Coercion, blackmail or trafficking.
• Attacking the platform itself: malware, credential theft, mass fraud.

8. Notice and appeal

Whenever we act against you we tell you what was removed or restricted, which rule it broke, and how long it lasts — unless a law or an active investigation stops us from saying.

To appeal, reply to that notice or write to support@sepx.cc quoting its reference, and say what you think we got wrong. Someone who was not part of the first decision reviews it and answers within 14 days. A successful appeal restores the content and clears the record.

The action stays in force while the appeal is reviewed, and making a new account to get around it will not help your case.

9. Reporting

Use the report control on a message, user or server, or email support@sepx.cc. Tell us where the content is and what is wrong with it — a link and one sentence is enough. First response within 1 business day; illegal content and requests from people depicted in content are acknowledged within 24 hours.

Do not report in bad faith. Mass or malicious reporting is itself a breach of these Guidelines.

If someone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first, then tell us so that we can preserve the evidence.